WHAT MANNER OF HUSBAND ARE YOU?

How can your wife describe you? Below are a few categories of husband:
(1). Autocratic Husband- He is a self-knowledge, self-involved, unbending, unyielding husband. Nobody can correct him, nobody can counsel him. To him, he knows everything. He is very arrogant and stubborn. He has no mentor. He does not fear, honour or respect anybody. He doesn’t want anybody to

advise him and he can not be influenced by anybody especially his wife, who hardly knows his plan or what he may do next. He is a difficult man to live with.
(2). Corrosive Husband- He is abusive; hot tempered and a wife beater. He is not in charge of his temper. He is a no-joke, no-play, no-laughter and no-nonsense man. He shouts and barks at home. The house is a military camp; his room is a Defence headquarters, while he is the garrison commander, lion of the family and commander in chief of family forces.
(3). Solo Husband- He stays in separate room away from his wife. He is a “single” married man. He prefers sharing his secret with friends; the only time he talks to his wife is when he needs food and sex.
He is self-centered; his common words are “I”, “me”, “mine” and “myself”. He is full of self-glorification, self-justification and stinginess.
(4). Semi-Husbands- They are not real husbands, they are men under their trouser but lesser than that in their duties at home. They are real men in bed and on the dining table; but when it gets to paying school fees they are nothing. It is their wives who pay the house rent, electricity bills, buy food and provide generally for the family. It is not that he is not working; it’s just that he is a useless man that will not provide for his own family. While some are too lazy to work, others that have money spend their money outside to the detriment of peace in their homes. A semi-husband is a disgrace, Proverbs 24:27, I Tim 5:8.
(6). Supermarket Husbands- These are husbands that are unfaithful to their wives. They are everybody’s husband. They spend lavishly on their girl friends, woman friends, prostitutes and concubines outside; while giving little or nothing to their household.
To men like this, anything in skirt is good for a bed-mate. They pay huge amount of money on hotel bills. They are shameless to the extent that they visit brothels for prostitute or park their cars in the bush path to perform their ungodly act with immoral ladies. Some even go to the extent of impregnating their house-maids and sleeping with their wives’ younger sisters, Proverbs 7:1-27
(7). Executive Husbands- These are men that live their lives in an executive way. They do not allow their wives to have any close relationship with them. They operate their rooms as if it is the general manager’s office; no love, no romance and no intimacy.
If their wives want to enter their rooms, they have to knock and obtain permission before coming in. They do issue orders to their family members as if to the workers under them and inform their families about their plans as if addressing a press conference; where no journalist is allowed to ask any question.
Their wives cannot easily talk to them, in fact; they have to send their children to them before they can get anything from them.
One thing that is common to most of them is that most of them are business executives hence, they use their office experience to the maximum at home expecting everybody at home to follow suit. They have little or no respect for their wives, if their business is not going on fine, then the whole family is in trouble. Many of them always want their wives to be full-time house wives so that they can have full control over them.
(8). Traditional Husbands- They see their wives as properties. They believe women are third class citizens, useful only in the kitchen and bedroom. To them, a woman is just a cook, a tool of pleasure (sex) and baby making machine.
They give no attention to their wives who they see as somebody that is a little bit above their house-maid. They believe that their younger ones living with them are to be served by their wives, while they are expected not to do anything at home.
Most of them are still using the style of their grand-fathers for their marriages. They believe a woman must not enjoy sex; love must not be shown to them, they must be beaten if they misbehave, if she fails to give birth to a baby boy then she is a failure. If they give birth to children who behave poorly they belong to the wife, the one that behave excellently belong to the father.
(9). Baby Husbands- They are not under-aged men physically, but they are infant mentally. They know how to build a house but not how to make a home.
If you want to know baby husbands look for the following:
• He keeps malice with his wife
• He rejects food because he is angry
• He beats his wife
• He reports his wife to friends and family members
• He keeps a separate room from his wife.
• He embarrasses his wife publicly
• He calls his wife goat, animal, fool, etc.
• He loves his mother more than his wife
• May refuse to give house-keeping allowance because of a little misunderstanding
• Can never be influenced by his wife
• He is a contentious husband, he nags.
• Will never pray with his wife
• Always find it difficult to say “I am sorry”.
• Will never help his wife with the baby.
• He threatens his wives with polygamy or divorce
• He criticizes, condemns and compares his wife with other women
• He does not love his wife, if he does; he will never say it, or demonstrate it.
• He leaves the house without anybody knowing where he has gone to.
• He gives no room for romance and intimacy. All he wants is sex.
• Gives no room for foreplay before sex. He is just like a carpenter who has no emotion for the nail.
• He retaliates instead of rewarding
• Never does anything to improve his marriage. He will never read marriage books, attend seminar or go for counseling.
(10). Kingdom Husbands- They are extra-ordinary husbands; they are what God want them to be as husband. They know that their God is to be feared and worshipped, their wives are to be loved and their children are to be catered for. They are “real men”, men indeed; they are the SUNSHINE in the life of their wives and children.
- They are man of integrity: – They mean what they say; and say what they mean
- They do pray with and for their wives.
- They are faithful, loving and caring.
- They cherish and nourish their wives.
- They listen to the suggestion of their wives.
- They are good communicator.
- Apologize easily, forgive quickly.
- They lead their homes with wisdom
- They never retaliate, they rather reconcile.
- They do speak the truth in love.
- They provide for their family (1 Tim. 5:8)
- They stay in the same room with their wives.
- They “leave” their parent and leave to their wives.
- Their wives know how much they are earning.
- They are actively involved in child bearing, rearing, discipline and parenting.
- They have ultimate respect for their wives.
- They do support their wives in the kitchen.
- They are close to their wives, full of honour and they do play with their wives.
- They are skillful in the bedroom; meeting their wives bedroom need.
Kingdom husbands are not common but God can make you one of them, turning your home to a place to be.
Kingdom Husbands – Traits of an Uncommon Hubby
Kingdom husbands are common men with uncommon sense. Are you a great husband? Do you want to be one? Do you want to be a husband your wife will adore, honor and hero-worship? Then all you just need to do is to develop the following traits of uncommon husbands:
God Fearing: The first trait of a great husband is the fear of the Lord. He fears the Lord enough to obey His words. He fears the God enough to care and provide for his wife. No husband can be a wonderful husband expects he is God fearing man.
2. Godly Character: A great husband is of a man with godly character. He is meek, gentle, caring, loving, forgiving, supportive, wise and cautious. He is not stingy but honest. He does not attend night clubs, smoke or practice adultery.
3. Love: He loves his wife with all his heart and is not ashamed to let anybody know. He expresses love to his wife at any given opportunity.
4. Respects and Honors: When you see a man that embarrasses his wife in the public, he is a total failure as a man of valor. A great husband respects and honors his wife and gives all glory to God.
5. Good Communication: A woman loves it when her husband is talking and listening passionately to her. A good husband is open to his wife. He speaks the truth is love and is always positive in his reactions to his wife.
6. Great Leader: He is never a boss but is a tender lover. He knows how to make people follow him without forcing them. He has vision, which he shares with his family. He influences the family and offers them good examples.
7. Diligent: A great husband is a worker; he is not lazy. He puts his hands to work and makes bread available to his family.
8. Romantic: He satisfies his Wife’s Bedroom Desires. A great husband is romantic. He knows how to make his wife enjoy him. He is tender, patient and careful with the wife in the bedroom. He knows that foreplay is a must if a woman must enjoy sex. Hence, he never rush the wife but brings her up before any sexual act.
9. He gives His Wife Peace: The wife of a great husband is always sad to see him travel because he is a man of peace with no space for fighting, bitter arguments, abuse, curse, shouting, malice, bitterness, resentment, bickering and hatred. A great husband has no time for all these. He is a source of joy to his darling wife.
10. He is Committed to Marriage: He never threatens his wife with beating, separation or divorce but is ready to give his marriage anything it takes to make it work. His wife is number one in his life after God. His wife is his thinking partner, friend, prayer partner, bed mate, and confidant!
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This is not meant to abuse anybody, but for you to check yourself and try to be a better husband and father, may God help you in Jesus name, Amen

Second U.S. case of MERS virus found in Florida, CDC says

Last Updated May 12, 2014 3:25 PM EDT

A second case of the deadly MERS virus has been confirmed in the United States, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention announced today.

The CDC said the disease was diagnosed Sunday in a patient at an Orlando, Florida, hospital. They said the man, from Saudi Arabia, was in the area visiting relatives when he fell ill last week. They noted that he had not visited at any Orlando-area theme parks.

This man -- like the first U.S. patient in Indiana earlier this month -- was a health care worker in a hospital in Saudi Arabia where MERS cases have been treated. Officials said the two U.S. cases are not related.

MERS-CoV -- which stands for Middle East respiratory syndrome coronavirus -- was first identified in Saudi Arabia in 2012. Since then at least 480 cases have been confirmed in Saudi Arabia and 139 people there have died. Cases have also been reported in several nearby countries including the United Arab Emirates, Egypt, Jordan and Lebanon.

The only cases identified so far in the U.S. or Europe have been in people who had recently traveled to the region.

Symptoms of MERS can include fever, breathing problems, pneumonia and kidney failure.

Health officials say they are working to track down people who may have come in contact with the Orlando patient during his travels, beginning on May 1 with flights from Jedda, Saudi Arabia, to London, then on to Boston, Atlanta, and finally Orlando.

The first U.S. case was confirmed May 2 in a patient in Indiana. Officials said he had just arrived in the U.S. a few days earlier from Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, where he worked at a hospital. He was released from the Indiana hospital May 9 after doctors said he was making a good recovery. He did not appear to have infected anyone else he'd come in contact with during his travels.

The MERS virus has been found in camels, and the animals appear to have a role in spreading it to humans. This weekend the Saudi government advised people to avoid contact with camels if possible, and to wear protective gloves and face masks and wash their hands if they did encounter the animals.

MERS can spread from person to person, but officials believe it that normally happens only in cases of close contact, such as between patients and health care workers. Not all of those exposed to the virus develop the illness.

CBS News/AP

At Last: Boko Haram Strikes In Lagos….Blows Up Danfo Filled With Passengers!

April 1, 2014 by Chukwuma Nzeogwu No Comments

Boko Haram Finally Attacks Lagos Blow up

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Boko Haram Finally Attacks Lagos Blow up

What had become feared and dreaded for years looked to have become real when a passenger bus, popularly called Danfo, exploded in Lagos, with passengers on transit.

Many passers-by scampered into safety when they first heard the loud bang, before the bus went up in flames.

The security outfits have yet to issue a statement as at the time, with many expecting to hear a detailed report on this latest atack.

Ebola virus disease

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"Ebola" redirects here. For other uses, see Ebola (disambiguation).

Ebola virus disease
Classification and external resources
1976 photograph of two nurses standing in front of Mayinga N., a patient with Ebola virus disease; she died only a few days later due to severe internal hemorrhaging.
ICD-10	A98.4
ICD-9	065.8
DiseasesDB	18043
MedlinePlus	001339
eMedicine	med/626
MeSH	D019142

Ebola virus disease (EVD) or Ebola hemorrhagic fever (EHF) is the human disease caused by ebola viruses. Symptoms start 2 days to 3 weeks after contracting the virus with a fever, throat and muscle pains, and headaches. There is then nausea, vomiting and diarrhea along with decreased functioning of the liver and kidneys. At this point some people begin to have problems with bleeding.^[1]
The disease is first acquired by a population when a person comes into contact with the blood or bodily fluids of an infected animal such as a monkey or fruit bat. Fruit bats are believed to carry and spread the disease without being affected by it. Once infected the disease may be spread from one person to another. Men who survive may be able to transmit the disease sexually for nearly 2 months. To make the diagnosis, typically other diseases with similar symptoms such as malaria, cholera and other viral hemorrhagic fever are excluded. The blood may then be tested for either antibodies to the virus, the viral DNA, or the virus itself to confirm the diagnosis.^[1]
Prevention involves decreasing the spread of the disease from infected monkeys and pigs to humans. This may be done by checking these animals for infection and killing and properly disposing of the bodies if the disease is discovered. Properly cooking meat and wearing protective clothing when handling meat may be helpful, as may wearing protective clothing and washing hands when around someone sick with the disease. Samples from people with the disease should be handled with an extra degree of caution.^[1]
There is no specific treatment for the virus with efforts to help people including giving the person either oral rehydration therapy or intravenous fluids. The disease has a high rate of death possibly up to 90%. It typically occurs in outbreaks and occurs in tropical regions of Sub-Saharan Africa. Between when it was first identified in 1976 and 2012 less than 1000 people a year have been infected. The disease was first identified in the Sudan and the Democratic Republic of the Congo. Efforts are ongoing to develop a vaccine; however, none exists as of 2014.^[1]

PARENTS’: ARE THEY EXISTING OR LIVING?

Parent is known to be Mother, Father or Legal Guardian; it is presently expected to that progeny can’t make up without fusion of both male & female chromosome. Biological Parents is what I’m now referring to now as parents {Mother & Father} as entity. God places these ones above all of us after Him irrespective of your status on earth. They have greater power and authority for every move & decision we make, for ensuring love, care, kindness & godly guidance; because they are to give account how they make us fulfill God’s purpose on earth. They fore-see our future as they are bringing us up in godly manner with moral attitude. Prov 22:6. Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it. NKJV.

Here are 12 things to observe in our parents’ lives, so that we don’t stop praying for them or else, it will affect us latter of our lives, before we start saying this to them, please, I am her to be corrected if I did not get it right.

Ø  If your parents are not staying together, they exist and not living for you.

Ø  If your parents are not of the same believe or faith, they exist and not living.

Ø  If your parents are not sharing same bed not even bed room, they exist and not living.

Ø  If your parents are not dinning together, they exist and not living.

Ø  If your parents are not praying together, they exist and not living.

Ø  If you parents are not planning together, they exist and not living.

Ø  If your parents are not communicating well, they exist and not living,

Ø  If your parents did not study the word of god together, they exist and not living.

Ø  If your parents find it hard to resolve their differences on time, they exist not yet living.

Ø  If your parents prefer 3^rd party intervention to rule, govern or coordinate the family, they exist and not living.

Ø  If mum refuse to be submissive and dad did not show love, but have us as kids, note they are cohabiting and not even exist talk less of living.

Ø  If your parents show one or more attributes of the above lists, and you knew it. And you could not save your home, mind you, it will show forth in one way or other when you grow up to, even you have the greatest anointing to pull down mountain and stop Boko haram from their evil operation, you will fail and it will pain you seeing your parents in such way and could not do anything.

James 5: 19 – 20. Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, {20} let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins. NKJV.

There is solution to every problem that emanate from your home, mind you, we all came from a source call parents, then they need our more love, care and also best of our prayer, while all working out our salvation with fear and tremble.

Eph 6:2-3. 2 "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with promise: 3 "that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.”NKJV.  We are the receiving end to the great union of our parents reward, we need to stand on our feet and say no to defeat. Let us pray every time for our parents, for grace to be abound to do that which is better. Show more care and kindness to them, because whatever we sow into their lives today, soonest we, reap it in due time. Hun who knows may be they are also reaping what they also sowed in the past, Judgment belong to God and not men. Matt 7:1-2. 7:1. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. NIV……

PLEASE PRAY FOR YOUR PARENTS ALL THE TIME.

I PRAY FOR AS AMNY THAT WERE RAISED OR TRAINED FROM A BROKEN FAMILY, MAY THE GOOD LORD PUT YOU IN BEST POSITION TO SAVE YOUR WORLD AND NOT MAKE YOUR PARENTS SIN RECOUNT ON YOU, TAKE YOUR MATTER TO GOD FAST.

AND FOR WE THAT HAVE SINGLE PARENTS, MAY THE GOOD LORD GUIDE US AND SAVE US FROM THE ERRORS OF OUR PARENTS, CAREFULLY GUIDE US FROM THE HANDS OF OUR STEP PARENTS IN JESUS NAME.

AFTER READING THIS PEACE, PRAY GOD SHOULD RESTORE BACK THE LOVE YOU MISSED IN YOUR PARENTS LIFE IN SEVEN FOLDS IN THE LIFE OF YOUR SPOUSE. REMEMBER, YOU MUST FORGIVE YOUR PARENTS NO MATTER WHAT, THEN SEND MESSAGES, & CALLS TO THEM THAT YOU LOVE THEM NO MATTER WHAT, WITH THIS YOU WIN MORE ATTENTION OF YOUR PARENTS.   #bombdgreat May 14.

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