10 Big Physical Turn Offs that Guys Always Notice! (Ladies must read)
#1 Too much makeup. A
little bit of makeup is absolutely fine. But don’t go overboard
assuming you’ll impress the guy with the fancy artwork on your face. To
most guys, too little makeup is always better than too much makeup which
would make them visualize a clown while talking to you. A safe tip
here, use makeup to enhance and accentuate your face, not to cover it up
and hide it.
#2 Body odor. This
isn’t something most of us think too much about because, let’s face it,
we’re not smelly people. Most people aren’t. Of course, there may be an
occasional day or two when you feel overwhelmed by an attack of anxiety
and get a whiff of your own sweaty underarm after a long day’s work.
#3 Facial hair. When
a guy’s cozying up with you on a date, he wouldn’t want to see facial
hair sticking out over your upper lip. After all, if a guy prefers a
girl with facial hair, he might as well date a dude. The same goes with
unibrows, thick armpit hairs *even if they’re short and stiff* that
stick out in sleeveless tops, and hairy arms or legs.
#4 Unkempt nails and hair. A
guy may appear oblivious to the many things you do to make him notice
you better, but when he clasps your fingers with his, one of the first
things he’d notice are your nails *especially if they’re chipped or
chewed*. And bad, messy hair that’s matted or dirty and need of a wash
badly? Well, that’s another complete no-no.
#5 Oral hygiene. There
are so many things you can do right to impress a guy during that first
conversation. But if you’ve got food stuck in your teeth, or if you have
bad teeth, a guy can’t help but feel awkward around you.
And if you’re
suffering from bad breath, well, that’s one of the things that can
really make a big difference to the way the date ends. If you think your
throat’s dry and your breath smells, pop in a mint or a gum. It’s the
least courteous thing you can do when a guy’s trying to pucker up for a
kiss.
#6 Tramp stamps. Tattoos
seem sexy, but most guys prefer to admire it from far away! Guys
especially avoid girls with tramp stamps like big tattoos on their lower
back or on a very visible part of their cleavage.
Tattoos can be
sweet and nice when they’re discreet or small, but not when they’re
screaming “look where I’ve got a tattoo!”. Most guys who see girls with
big tattoos assume she’s too easy to get, and only see her as a flirty
and easy lay, instead of trying to see her as a potential mate for life.
#7 Bad attire. It’s
one thing to dress fashionable, but it’s a complete different thing to
dress in an outlandish, fashionably unfashionable manner. Most guys
don’t feel comfortable on a date with a girl who wears ill-fitting
clothes that are too loose or too tight. Dress comfortably in a feminine
manner, and you’d have a better chance of scoring points with him.
After all, if a guy feels uncomfortable around you, he’s obviously going
to have a bad time with you.
#8 Unhealthy appearance. Glowing
skin is not just a sign of good health and good nutrition, it’s also a
huge attention grabber. If you’re overworking or stressed out all the
time, its effects would start showing on your face. You’d look older,
your skin would look duller and you’d appear lifeless.
Evolution has
programmed a man’s mind to fall for girls who look healthy, as opposed
to someone who seems haggard. Enjoy life, relax and banish stress from
your life. You could even work out and let those endorphins work their
magic on your appearance. [
#9 Bad language. Guys
find pushy girls who abuse and use bad language rather unattractive and
unappealing. Swear at something if you must, but avoid starting or
ending your sentences with cuss words. It’s just as bad as a girl who
grabs a guy and manhandles him repeatedly on a first date. Guys hate
that, even if they don’t say it out loud during the date. But of course,
you’ll know he hated it soon enough when he doesn’t call you back!
#10 Not leaving anything to a guy’s imagination. When
you’re on a date with a guy, don’t let your enthusiasm to catch the
guy’s eye take you overboard. Don’t wear something that leaves nothing
to his imagination. He’d either think you’re too easy to get and would
try to get you into bed on the very first date *and forget all about you
the next morning*, or he’d feel really awkward in public and appear
distracted throughout the date. Either ways, if you’re looking for
something serious with a guy, it’s definitely not going to work in your
favor.
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